Dare to Lead

“𝙸𝚗 𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚙𝚘𝚕𝚒𝚝𝚒𝚌𝚊𝚕 𝚌𝚑𝚊𝚘𝚜, 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎 𝚝𝚑𝚛𝚘𝚠 𝚊𝚛𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚍 “𝚜𝚑𝚊𝚖𝚎𝚕𝚎𝚜𝚜” 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚢 𝚜𝚎𝚎 𝚜𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚘𝚗𝚎 𝚖𝚊𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚊 𝚜𝚎𝚕𝚏-𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚟𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚘𝚛 𝚞𝚗𝚎𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚌𝚊𝚕 𝚍𝚎𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚒𝚘𝚗. 𝙰𝚗𝚍 𝚊𝚝𝚝𝚛𝚒𝚋𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚞𝚗𝚌𝚘𝚗𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚘𝚗𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚋𝚎𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚒𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚝𝚘 𝚕𝚊𝚌𝚔 𝚘𝚏 𝚜𝚑𝚊𝚖𝚎. 𝚃𝚑𝚒𝚜 𝚒𝚜 𝚠𝚛𝚘𝚗𝚐 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚍𝚊𝚗𝚐𝚎𝚛𝚘𝚞𝚜. 𝚂𝚑𝚊𝚖𝚎 𝚒𝚜𝚗’𝚝 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚞𝚛𝚎, 𝚒𝚝’𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚌𝚊𝚞𝚜𝚎. 𝙳𝚘𝚗’𝚝 𝚕𝚎𝚝 𝚠𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚕𝚘𝚘𝚔𝚜 𝚕𝚒𝚔𝚎 𝚊 𝚋𝚕𝚘𝚊𝚝𝚎𝚍 𝚎𝚐𝚘 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚗𝚊𝚛𝚌𝚒𝚜𝚜𝚒𝚜𝚖 𝚏𝚘𝚘𝚕 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚒𝚗𝚝𝚘 𝚝𝚑𝚒𝚗𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎’𝚜 … More Dare to Lead

#SELFLOVE is Bullshit

“Love yourself.” From self-help to social media, self love and self acceptance have become a trendy statement. Ironically, the publicly posted selfie is often coupled with #selflove and yet, the post itself solicits love, likes and approval from followers.  Which begs the question, would you need that validation if you truly loved yourself? Love yourself, … More #SELFLOVE is Bullshit

NOW WHAT?

“Everything will be okay, because I have HIM.  As long as HE is by my side, it doesn’t matter how things turn out because together WE’LL make it through and be okay.”   As a wife, this is what I believed about my husband, my marriage and my life. Leaning into this idea displaced a substantial … More NOW WHAT?

Happy 4th Birthday Ruby 🌸

𝙼𝚢 𝚁𝚞𝚋𝚢,𝙸𝚗 𝚏𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚢𝚎𝚊𝚛𝚜 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚛𝚊𝚗𝚜𝚏𝚘𝚛𝚖𝚎𝚍 𝚏𝚛𝚘𝚖 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚜𝚠𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚎𝚜𝚝 𝚛𝚊𝚟𝚎𝚗 𝚑𝚊𝚒𝚛𝚎𝚍 𝚋𝚊𝚋𝚢 𝚝𝚘 𝚊 𝚋𝚎𝚊𝚞𝚝𝚒𝚏𝚞𝚕 𝚜𝚙𝚒𝚝𝚏𝚒𝚛𝚎 𝚠𝚒𝚝𝚑 𝚝𝚑𝚎 𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚏𝚎𝚌𝚝 𝚋𝚕𝚘𝚗𝚍𝚎 𝚌𝚞𝚛𝚕𝚜.𝚈𝚘𝚞 𝚑𝚊𝚟𝚎 𝚊 𝚋𝚘𝚕𝚍 𝚙𝚛𝚎𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚊 𝚋𝚛𝚒𝚐𝚑𝚝 𝚜𝚎𝚗𝚜𝚎 𝚘𝚏 𝚑𝚞𝚖𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚒𝚜 𝚏𝚊𝚜𝚌𝚒𝚗𝚊𝚝𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚝𝚘 𝚘𝚋𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚟𝚎.𝚈𝚘𝚞 𝚕𝚘𝚟𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚕𝚘𝚞𝚍.𝚈𝚘𝚞 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚋𝚛𝚊𝚣𝚎𝚗 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚋𝚘𝚜𝚜𝚢.𝚈𝚘𝚞 𝚘𝚏𝚝𝚎𝚗 𝚝𝚎𝚕𝚕 𝚢𝚘𝚞𝚛 𝚋𝚛𝚘𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚛 𝚠𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚍𝚘 𝚏𝚘𝚕𝚕𝚘𝚠𝚎𝚍 𝚋𝚢,“𝚒𝚏 … More Happy 4th Birthday Ruby 🌸

𝙶𝚁𝙸𝚃

𝙶𝚁𝙸𝚃 𝚒𝚜 𝚗𝚘𝚝 𝚓𝚞𝚜𝚝 𝚠𝚘𝚛𝚔𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚒𝚗𝚌𝚛𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚋𝚕𝚢 𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚍—𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝’𝚜 𝚘𝚗𝚕𝚢 𝚙𝚊𝚛𝚝 𝚘𝚏 𝚒𝚝. . 𝚃𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚗𝚘 𝚜𝚑𝚘𝚛𝚝𝚌𝚞𝚝𝚜 𝚝𝚘 𝚎𝚡𝚌𝚎𝚕𝚕𝚎𝚗𝚌𝚎. 𝙳𝚎𝚟𝚎𝚕𝚘𝚙𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚎𝚡𝚙𝚎𝚛𝚝𝚒𝚜𝚎, 𝚏𝚒𝚐𝚞𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚐 𝚘𝚞𝚝 𝚛𝚎𝚊𝚕 𝚑𝚊𝚛𝚍 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚋𝚕𝚎𝚖𝚜, 𝚒𝚝 𝚊𝚕𝚕 𝚝𝚊𝚔𝚎𝚜 𝚝𝚒𝚖𝚎 – 𝚕𝚘𝚗𝚐𝚎𝚛 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚗 𝚖𝚘𝚜𝚝 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎 𝚒𝚖𝚊𝚐𝚒𝚗𝚎. 𝙰𝚗𝚍 𝚝𝚑𝚎𝚗, 𝚢𝚘𝚞’𝚟𝚎 𝚐𝚘𝚝 𝚝𝚘 𝚊𝚙𝚙𝚕𝚢 𝚝𝚑𝚘𝚜𝚎 𝚜𝚔𝚒𝚕𝚕𝚜 𝚊𝚗𝚍 𝚙𝚛𝚘𝚍𝚞𝚌𝚎 𝚐𝚘𝚘𝚍𝚜 𝚘𝚛 𝚜𝚎𝚛𝚟𝚒𝚌𝚎𝚜 𝚝𝚑𝚊𝚝 𝚊𝚛𝚎 𝚟𝚊𝚕𝚞𝚊𝚋𝚕𝚎 𝚝𝚘 𝚙𝚎𝚘𝚙𝚕𝚎. 𝚁𝚘𝚖𝚎 … More 𝙶𝚁𝙸𝚃

Hᴏᴡ Tᴏ Hᴀɴᴅʟᴇ Bᴇᴛʀᴀʏᴀʟ

Yᴏᴜ ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴛᴏ ᴜɴᴅᴇʀsᴛᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴀʟᴇᴠᴏʟᴇɴᴄᴇ ᴇxɪsᴛs ɪɴ ᴛʜᴇ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ – ɪᴛ’s ᴛʜᴇʀᴇ ɪɴ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀɴᴅ ɪᴛ·s ᴛʜᴇʀᴇ ɪɴ ᴏᴛʜᴇʀs. Yᴏᴜ ʜᴀᴠᴇ ᴛᴏ ʟᴇᴀʀɴ ᴛᴏ ᴀᴄᴄᴇᴘᴛ ɪᴛ ᴀs ᴀ ʀᴇᴀʟɪᴛʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴅᴇᴄɪᴅᴇ ᴛʜᴀᴛ ʏᴏᴜ ᴀʀᴇ ɢᴏɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʙᴇɢɪɴ ᴛᴏ ᴄᴏɴᴛᴇɴᴅ ᴡɪᴛʜ ɪᴛ. Tʜᴀᴛ’s ᴀ ᴡᴀʏ ᴏᴜᴛ. Tʜᴇ ᴘᴏʟᴀʀɪᴛʏ ᴏғ ʙᴇɴᴇᴠᴏʟᴇɴᴄᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴍᴀʟᴇᴠᴏʟᴇɴᴄᴇ ɪs ʙᴜɪʟᴛ ɪɴᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ … More Hᴏᴡ Tᴏ Hᴀɴᴅʟᴇ Bᴇᴛʀᴀʏᴀʟ

Resistance & Recovery

In the last couple weeks, I haven’t been recovering as well as usual. Likely due to the stress of the holidays coupled with increasing volume and suboptimal sleep. – Resistance to adaptation has happened a couple times in my training and each time it generates some fear and frustration. I ask @ernievo2max “What can I … More Resistance & Recovery

“𝕊𝕋ℝ𝕆ℕ𝔾 𝕃𝕀𝕂𝔼 𝕄𝕆𝕄𝕄𝕐”

I train 6 days a week. The words “gym” and “workout” are commonplace in our home. – For a while, my conscience struggled to guiltlessly embrace time in the #gym because it also meant time away from my children and it occasionally felt “selfish.” I have worked on and curtailed those feelings by clearly defining … More “𝕊𝕋ℝ𝕆ℕ𝔾 𝕃𝕀𝕂𝔼 𝕄𝕆𝕄𝕄𝕐”

𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝗕𝗔𝗗 𝗗𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗪𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗜𝗧?

“The question that each athlete faces in the crucial moments of a race – “How Bad Do You Want It?” – is fundamentally a question of motivation.” -Matt Fitzgerald 𝗪𝗛𝗬 𝗗𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗪𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗜𝗧? “Why run is the question often asked. Why go out there every afternoon and beat out your brains? What is the … More 𝗛𝗢𝗪 𝗕𝗔𝗗 𝗗𝗢 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗪𝗔𝗡𝗧 𝗜𝗧?

Cinderella Saved Herself

As a little girl, I loved the story of Cinderella. Kindness prevailing despite miserable circumstances, miracles bestowed by fairy godmothers, and love conquering all. These themes still appeal to me. I used to think the story of someone loving us enough to save us from our suffering was romantic. I didn’t realize that by dreamily … More Cinderella Saved Herself