In the last several years, the term “political polarization” has become increasingly tangible. Fueled by social media algorithms that create ideological echo chambers and reinforced by a fear of cancellation, the suppression of debate has quieted many wise voices.
When did the discussion of ideas become offensive rather than an opportunity to think critically and consider alternative perspectives?
To discuss an idea wisely, one must know and understand both the concept and the evidence that supports and disputes it. Knowing and understanding an opposing view is not the same as assent.
This raises another question: When did life shift to require an individual’s beliefs to be only black or white? Republican or Democrat, conservative or liberal, mask or no mask, vaccines or no vaccines?
The expression “to throw the baby out with the bathwater” means to discard valuable ideas in an attempt to get rid of undesirable ones.
Curiosity is the prerequisite to problem-solving. Questions lead to hypotheses, which lead to the intellectual exploration of theory. Critical thinking requires broad investigation and deep consideration.
We become and believe what we surround ourselves with — people, ideas, opinions, content.
Placing ourselves in the midst of conscientious opposing perspectives—with open minds, genuine curiosity, and a willingness to consider another view—has the potential to lead to true wisdom. Knowing that nothing is purely black and white is both wise and challenging. Living with paradox means accepting duality, which is more difficult. It requires careful and more profound thought and introspection that goes beyond just choosing one side over the other.
Discernment with each idea—rather than compliance to the first story we hear—requires discipline, patience, and the humility to admit we might be wrong or may not have all the answers. Considering how theories connect to personal experience, cause, effect, and anecdote is a mentally challenging exercise, but one that expands the mind.
Discussion of a belief or idea does not equate to a marriage vow of “til death do us part.” Regardless of what you see in the media, we are allowed to change our minds. This is not flaky! The human experience is ever evolving; why wouldn’t our minds be too?
Curiosity has the potential to lead to deeper wisdom and greater compassion.
So, in a world that appears more and more divided and silent, let’s make a point to be more curious, less judgmental, and to continue having the conversations. Let’s be intentional in our willingness to stay open, to lean in and listen better, and to challenge our minds to consider alternative ways of thinking—or at the very least, to embrace that more than one thing can be true.
Let’s not throw the baby out with the bathwater, folks.
MSMAMACHIC 